What influenced your decisions regarding letting folks know the big news, and when to do it? Did any responses surprise you? With hindsight, would you have done anything differently? There were only two people who knew we were trying to conceive – my wife got one person (her sister) and I got one person (my [...]
Archive for the ‘q&a’ Category
1 Oct
Answer: Doing things differently/having another
What if anything would you have differently regarding conception, pregnancy, birth? You may have mentioned this but do you plan to have another? Conception: Not at all, but that could be because we were one of the very few couples who had no trouble getting pregnant. I like the supposed romance of home IUI’s with [...]
30 Sep
Answer: Trans
Anonymous question regarding finding peace/balance with my transgendered feelings: As soon as I discovered there was something called “transgender,” I knew that I most certainly was on some level. Moments after, I realized that I probably would never have it in me to do anything about it. Call me the lazy trans man, if you [...]
29 Sep
Answer: Relationship to Self/Butch Status
Has/how has being pregnant and giving birth affected your relationship to yourself and your butch status? Has it changed how you view yourself in any way? My relationship to myself has definitely been altered. I think anyone who goes through pregnancy comes out the other end being affected by the whole experience – from learning [...]
27 Sep
Questions and Answers
The first year anniversary of the beginning of this blog is just around the corner. Seeing as this is the first blog I’ve ever started and actually kept up with, that sound you’re hearing is me patting myself on the back. That other sound you’re hearing is the quiet snoring of the other dormant blogs [...]
